how do you pm someone? o.o i cant find it

hold your mouse over the 'Home' drop down menu. You'll see one that says 'My PMs' click on that and it will take you to your PM page. From there you can send PMs to others.

Or you can simple go here
http://wlodb.com/pms

Also please see the guide in my signature about how to make a topic. '?' is not a proper title for a topic.

thanks and sorry about title sarin

it's ok ^_^ Just trying to make things a little more organized. you never know if anyone else is wondering how to get to their PMs and if they search they will search 'PM' or 'Private Message' they won't search '?'. So if they do a search your topic won't come up and we might end up with another topic asking how to get to and send PMs.