yea i know what you mean. like the leader/one who makes the instance can have a "start now" button.

though it may be unfair to some cause most high lvls would prolly want to do it alone with no newbies there or some would only want to do it with their friends or lover. would be more unfair if you make it a VIP only feature to "start now".

i already get kicked from instance cause of reason like people wanting to only play with their friends or bf/gf and they log tons of their alts in and kick you or leave if it starts before they can kick you.

i find it even more rude that they ignore or refuse you and walk away. some of them alone. or with just their alt or friends and its not a full team. then you have to follow and jump the fight, often thir view if off so you can't jump. other times if they see you dressed as a newbie they refuse you thinking that you are a newbie. few times i look at the instance list to see what lvl they are and then laugh and solo KS the fight. or i jump and help then they go ohh ahh try to invite me after fight and i walk off ignoring or refusing them. few times i get so pissed off when that does happen to me then when a new instance start i feel i just want to walk off and ignore them too (that was last rude to me). or i think "if i make an instance and you join i'll kick you like you kicked me" but i never do. but i admit there are times i'm pissed off enough cause of a person or last instance to walk off on my own if its an easy enough instance i beleive i can solo.

so in conclusion i just want all instance and even TW to start being more fair and friendly. not "all man for him/her self" *tosses babby and run cause its to heavy. or *pushes granny out of the way cause she's to slow when i'm trying to run" j- its disgusting... but fairness and kindness won't happen with how people act.. *sigh* just their nature i guess.. this world is doomed. ==