can someone show me how to set up an e-remote for a water in detail?

I dont have any pictures to show u but I could list it:
1st round: Shrink [Enemy]
2nd round: Water Shield/Cure Spell/Recovery Normal [Pet]
3rd round: Freeze [Enemy]
Top Priority: Shrink
Second Priority: Sleep
After you check the boxes, click confirm and then auto fight on regular remote :]

you can find images on how to set up the remotes for all elements here: http://wlodb.com/topics/169

klairee how can recovery normal can become a burstable skill for water o.o;?

Not sure, but some friends told me you could burst with it. You could try it out to see if it works. Basically, most assisting water skills can be used in bursting.