What exactly is the meaning of help? Free gold? Quest help? Help getting materials? Help making equipement? Help in training? Burst? Or all of the above? LoL.
I always try to do things myself first. Then if I can't do it, train and level to achieve the goal. Also, developing friendships inside your guild with people, so that they can back you up when you require assistance helps a lot too.
On topic, vamp looks like you got some nice chars there and sad you won't be playing anymore but glad you will still be here on forums. You are always welcome on Virgo so come and visit sometime =) Quoting pswk2 "In Virgo it is where dreams are made of" :D